Alexandra Guru 2019-10-28T11:09:32+00:00

I’m Alexandra.
Life-sex coach & dearmourer for the adventureous elite. 

It is my purpose on earth to liberate people to unleash their radiant sexuality in their own empowered and authentic way.


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Do you know what sex and air have in common? (without them we stop living and breathing) Would you like to learn more about what brings you more sexual confidence, pleasure and satisfaction? Are you interested in improving your sexual abilities, techniques and becoming more sexually alive to liberate your thoughts and desires?

Sex coaching can help you understand your sexual desires, needs, fantasies and gain more confidence so that you can express them to become a magnet for life.

Do you wonder if your sexual desires, fantasies and thoughts are normal? Do you feel alone? Do you feel like you don’t have the support or know where and how to start discovering your sexual needs? Do you fear judgement? Do you have shame and guilt around your sexual desires?

Sex coaching combined with erotic hypnosis can help you find, resolve and remove these subconscious or social fears, so you can start living with increased pleasure, libido, stamina and juicy moments. Our session will boost the way you are able to receive, express and evolve into sexual pleasure, play and overall live a much more satisfactory sex life.

Great sex is our basic human need and birthright. Just like air and food.

We need to nourish and breath in deeply to BE ALIVE. Craving more? Book Your Discovery Call 

What is de-armouring?

The armor is a result of blockages created by trauma, tension, thought-patterns and different experiences throughout life. This armor can hinder life-force from flowing freely throughout the body. It hardens and desensitizes the physical body, and because of emotions locked inside, it can also cloud the mind and make it difficult to navigate through life.

de-armouring is also a deep practise to libertion, we can also call it the path of liberation or enlightenment. Basically, the more you learn to meet yourself, pain and pleasure. Yes, pleasure is equally difficult for us as the pain. The more we practice to release, the deeper in contact we come with trur joy, intuition and a sense of alivness form deep within. These experiences tend to be so nourishing that we rahter face all challenges to live more freely and in true purpose.

What will happen?
A de-armoring session can be compared to a trigger point massage, where deep pressure is put on various points on the body to release physical, emotional and mental tensions. The points are external as well as internal, but internal work is only done if or when you are comfortable with it.

Each session is unique, and together we will find the best possible support for your release and opening.

A session always starts with a consulation and together we design what will work for you. Weather it is sexual awakening, trauma healing, boundary training, spiritual awakening, soul retrival or tantric practices, Alexandra will on top use her intuition and coaching to guide you as deep as possible. Your boundaries are respected at all times.

What parts of the body can be de-armored?

In short – every part. The whole body and mind is a potent point. Emotional repression works such as its stored anywhere where the body chose to store it in the moment of happening, trauma or tension.

All beings benefit from both external and internal de-armoring. Men can store a lot of fear and shame in the anus. Women can store a whole range of emotions in their vagina, cervix and womb, from unwanted sex (even the slightest compromise before intercourse can create armor), abortions, rape, abuse, birth control devices — you name it.

Dearmouring can help if:

  • You want to remove limiting beliefs about sexuality ( ‘good girl syndrome’ or ‘casanova’ )
  • You want to enhance your orgasmic ability and pleasure to deepen connection with yourself and people
  • You want to bring out your feminine goddess ( boost your feminity and self-confidence) .
  • You want to enhance your pleasure – experience full body energetic orgasm
  • You want to awaken your body and soul for multiple sensation and orgasmic potential
  • or Simply just curious

Want to learn more about if Dearmouring is for you?

CLICK HERE to Book Your Discovery Call!

Miss Alexandra

is a certified life-coach, psychosexual therapist and somatic bodyworker, specialising in the sexually open and adventurous kind to liberate and bring more sexual aliveness into your life. She helps people to discover, connect and experience sexuality and bring more bliss into everyday life. 

She was born in Hungary – lived in 4 continents, visited over 100 countries in a need to explore, play and seek for more aliveness, passion, love and lust. 

More About Me


2019 – Tantric Body Awakening + Dearmouring Training – Andrew Barnes

2019 – Tantric Full Body Energetic Orgasm Course – Sky Child, Holland

2018 – Clinical Hypnotherapy – Jankai János -Budapest

2017 – 2018 Psychosexual Therapy – UK, London

2016 – Deeksha – Oneness Meditation Course & Healing -Bali, Ubud

2015 –  Ninna Madden NLP & Life Coaching – UK, London


is to help people to claim and liberate sexual desires and gain access to a more orgasmic freedom-based lifestyle.

I take a results-oriented, motivational and holistic approach, and I keep my sessions informal and lighthearted.

Unlike a traditional therapist who may spend a lot of time in your past I’ll focus on practical, empowering coaching solutions to help you overcome the things that hold you back and reach those big, sexy goals.

Together, we’ll make the action happen!

My Coaching Can Help You ( and your relationship)

  • Understand your life and sexual desires, needs and fantasies
  • Address fears, blocks and ‘what if’s’
  • Explore and try new (sexual) experiences fearlessly
  • Open up your marriage and stay ethical and expressive
  • Learn to communicate openly about your needs
  • Accept your own body, needs, desires without judgment
  • Understand your own sexuality and how you are when you are in a relationship
  • Coping with change, unwanted sexual desires, gender issues, guilt…
  • Guidance in how to connect with like-minded sexual people, find communities or events




I love helping people discover connect and express their self and bring that powerful (sexual = lifeforce) energy into their life. I enjoy teaching individuals and couples how to experience, communicate openly about the good, the bad and the naughty desires, so that they can connect on a deeper more intimate and sexual level. 


Currently available in Budapest & London*

*In-person 1:1 coaching or workshop
(but I’m not limited – have a passport to travel to YOU)

I’m also available for speaking, organizing, hosting or collaborations on subject relevant events.

Please send your request via my CONTACT page to be considered!



Via phone or video call vs. email support

No time to meet in person? No worries.

All you need is a smartphone or PC with webcam, internet connection and we can meet 3D in the comfort of you home.

Feeling shy? Better express yourself in writing than talking? Email or WhatsApp can be the solution for you!



All packages start with 30 minutes of FREE discovery call ( ‘chemisty check’ )

– where we discuss your personal needs and desired outcomes for our work.

Depending on the complexity of the sexual desire or problem. I will advise you the required number of sessions.

Once we agreed we will set the times and dive deep into coaching and hypnotherapy to enhance your sexual outcomes.

Pay As You Go

It’s a one-off personal or online 60 minutes life or sex coaching session with me.

Recommended if:

  • Curious to try (sex)coaching or need a supportive talk to a professional
  • Have only one burning question about a sexual desire, fantasy
  • Have between sessions an issue and no-one to tell.

I’m here to support and hold you accountable for liberating and reaching your sexiest self and life!


Open Up Package

It’s when you know you know you ready for CLAIMING YOUR (SEX)LIFE.

It’s a body, mind and soul opening experience. Included 4 x 60 minutes (sex)coaching tailor-made your individual needs to fast-track your life and sexual enhancement so that you can become more confident and reach your desired outcome.

Recommended if:

  • You know what do you want, just don’t know where to start
  • You can’t decided what do you want exactly
  • You need to let go & limiting yourself and hear that’s ok to feel this way.

It’s a 30-60 day strategic coaching calls for one specific life or sexual issue.


Freedom Package

It’s my signature package where we will be working closely together 90 days on your TRANSFORMATION!

It’s included 6 x 60 min private coaching & 2 body de-armouring to reach your desired outcome!

Plus on top of all that you will have Email or WhatsApp support between sessions and I will assign you real-life exercises to support your transformation process and push your boundaries to grow and embrace the new YOU!



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